The truth...

Imagine!!!
You live with someone who said that he/she loves so much, but indeed, there is no love!!!. Escape from one to one reason, but the only reason just there is no more love. Love already become a death feeling. You just feel sorry, but an the end, it’s not enough for you to be happy. Dispite everyone has it own reason to feel sorry or to be in love with someone, I figure it out that love it’s only the beginning of chemistry. Marriage it’s a huge commitment, and it still truly need to put the logic reason behind decision to get married.

For the past last three weeks, I’ve been shocked for the story that happened to the people around me. Hurt and being hurt, lie and being lied, distrust, anger, jealousy, and so many others uncomfortable feeling. They have long been aware there is something wrong with the relationship, but hope with time will find a way out which better than parting. But then finally, split remains the best answer.

Yes, sometimes no matter how you wish otherwise it is not to be.
For years hoping it can fix the situation, but at the end, your hands up, can't do anything more, tired. Finally, no matter you escape, you will always find the truth of everything. You can push yourself to realize that, or something beyond your control will push you to accept the reality. No way to escape anymore. Face and overcome will be the only way to follow!!!

It will need the courage to firmly make a decision. Along the process of making and receiving decision, I see heartbroken with disaster angger. Love turned to hate, happiness to sadness. Of course, different people different attitude. The problem may be the same, but how to confront and solve problems will be different from each other. Patience, persistence, mutual trust, desire to understand and listen, is the personality qualities that can make a difference on any settlement issues.

Three couples with their own story.
at the day that each of them make decision,
when the truth become clearly,
wheter you are ready or not,
you just have to accept it!!

All I can say, that’s life…
All I hope, each of them can continue life without anger,
and be happy in their new chapter of life.
Amien.

(28) Me, flying...

Cintaku..dan cara aku mencintai bagi sebagian orang mulai dianggap sebagai satu kebodohan. Mulai muncul pertanyaan apakah 'dia' layak untuk mendapatkan segenap rasa, keyakinan, dan perjuanganku. Mulai mengemuka pula anggapan dan pendapat yang sarkas tentang 'dia'. Ahhh..buatku, jika niat menyalahkan, selalu akan muncul 1001 alasan untuk menyalahkan. Aku lebih suka mencari 1001 alasan untuk bersyukur...

Aku 'terbang' bukan untuk memuaskan anggapan sebagian teman-teman yang ingin aku segera 'beranjak' dari daerah dimana menurut mereka aku telah disia-siakan. Hmmm..jadi terharu... Tetapi apapun itu, bagiku tak ada yang sia-sia.

Aku 'terbang' karena aku ingin semua rangkaian proses ada dalam keseimbangan.
Keseimbangan ini penting jika kita berbicara tentang keselarasan jangka panjang.
and everything it's still wonderful for me...

Happy new year to you all.
Good bless us.

to be continued...
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